Why is your name Ashley? Aren’t you Indian?

There’s always a lot of confusion about my name. I’ve seen questions (on my social media) like, “what’s an Ashley” or “is Ashley a brand of condensed milk?” and have gotten many questions over the years about why my name is Ashley (as if I have any control over my name 😂 ).

I’m used to the questions though – I’ve been getting them since childhood. My parents named me Ashley because they were new to the US when they had me, and after dealing with their share of racism (like many immigrants), they decided to name me Ashley in hopes that I’d fit in. A few years later, they were more comfortable and named my younger brother Rishi. I think my mom still feels a morsel of regret over my name, and while I’ve always wondered what my name would be if they had waited to have me, I like being an Ashley.

Hopefully you know that a name doesn’t always determine your ethnicity (obviously). Anyway, I’m Ashley, and I share a lot of Indian recipes on my food blog.

How often do you blog?

I try to blog at least once a week, sometimes twice if my kids go to bed on time (hahaha). If you want to stay up to date with my latest posts, sign up for my newsletter.

Why do you share so many Instant Pot recipes?

Because I’m obsessed with my Instant Pot. Would you rather have dinner ready in 15 minutes or in several hours? Trust me; you need this appliance in your life – you can thank me later.

What size Instant Pot do you use?

I test all of my recipes using a 6 quart. Why? Because that’s the only size they had when they first came out and it’s the perfect size for my family. Also, I already spend a ton of time recipe testing – if I had to test every recipe in every sized pot, I’d never get anything done. If you’re wondering about the model I have and love – it’s this one.

Why am I getting a BURN sign on my Instant Pot?!

There are a few reasons this might be happening, but the first thing I’d suggest checking is your sauté setting. When you sauté, make sure your setting is set to “normal.” If you sauté on high, it can sometimes result in more burnt bits at the bottom of your pot. For my recipes, I always sauté on normal mode, unless I specify to sauté on high.

If you prefer to always sauté on high, be sure to stir more often and deglaze the pot with a bit of additional water before pressure cooking.

If that’s not the issue, check your seal, the silicone ring, or the valve on top.

I have a question about your 3-ingredient Gluten-Free Naan!

You and about a million other people, which is why I wrote an entire paleo naan FAQ post dedicated to answering your questions 🙂 There’s also a video in the post!

I have a question about your 2-ingredient Cheesecake!

What is it about my easy recipes getting so many questions lol 🤷🏽‍♀️ Check out this 2-ingredient Cheesecake FAQ post if you have questions about my Indian cheesecake recipe! And be sure to watch the video to see how easy it is to make!

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  1. Patti says

    Hi Ashley, 💐 thank you so much for your wonderful recipes! My husband and I are excited to try some, I’ll probably do the Chana Masala first. We will need to get the powdered mango and the roasted cumin seed, do you recommend any brands we would prefer organic on GMO. Also wondering if you offer a chicken tikki masala, that’s my husband‘s favorite. Thanks so much, all the best!

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    I cannot see how to unsubscribe. Other than “you can unsubscribe at any time” BUT HOW AND WHERE

    If you find the link then unsubscribe me PLEASE !!

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